Okay so, this survey came across my desk, right? Saying like, 60% of guys feel like nobody really cares if they're okay. And my first thought, like, my immediate thought, was "Yeah, duh." But not "duh" in a mean way, you know? More like, *mija*, we been knew this. Especially here in Chicago. I mean, you walk down 26th Street, past the panaderías and the quinceañera shops, or you're grabbing a Maxwell Street Polish at Jim's Original, and you see it. Guys, *hombres*, out there, working, hustling, doing what they gotta do. But who's checking in? Who's asking *'cómo estás'* beyond the surface?
Nah nah nah, let me explain. It’s not just about some survey. It’s about the way we do things here. We're tough, yeah? We got that Chicago grit. You learn to just… deal. You grow up seeing the struggles, the viaducts that separate neighborhoods, the constant construction on the Dan Ryan that means you're always stressed about getting somewhere. And for a lot of guys, there’s this unspoken pressure to just *handle it*. Don't complain, don't show weakness. And that’s a dangerous game, especially when you’re talking about mental health. We gotta break that cycle, *gente*. It starts with us, in our homes, on our blocks, in our communities from Little Village to Englewood. We gotta start making it okay to not be okay.
Because what happens when nobody cares? When those feelings just fester? It explodes, eventually. It affects families, it affects neighborhoods, it affects the whole city. We can’t afford to lose more of our people to silent battles. So yeah, 60%? Sounds about right. But it doesn't have to stay that way. We gotta talk about it, *en serio*.
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